What and how we eat and drink can support us and give us core strength and stability. Are you eating processed foods? Even “health foods” that are processed can rob us of real nutrition. As an experiment for one week, eat only whole fruits, whole grains, beans and whole vegetables. If you are still a meat eater make sure you take in no more than 1 or 2 oz per day. Fill up on the beans, grains, and vegetables using the fruit as a treat (no more than 3 pieces a day). Pay attention to chewing, slow down, put your fork down between bites and breathe. Just for one week do this and see if you feel more confident in other areas of your life, if you are sleeping better, less bothered by other drivers and “the news”. This is only a commitment for a week…it could be fun and interesting and who knows it could change your life.
Conscious Eating during Interesting Times
Posted by joaniemercer on February 1, 2017
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Interesting Times
I once read that when the Chinese say we are living in “interesting times”, “interesting times”can also mean “dangerous times” and means pay attention to what is going on within you and externally. The word interesting is the give away that times are perilous, we live on the razors edge.It is “interesting” has no judgement implied either good nor bad; just interesting.My ears always perk up when I hear this word. Interesting means I won’t be bored that’s for sure. The message of the word “interesting”is rich and consuming; be dispassionate, be the calm in the storm, be a witness, practice loving kindness the very best you can and be light-hearted in the midst of a insane world, ala the Italian film, A Beautiful Life.
My Alexander Technique practice, my yogic practice, my practice of a WFPB no oil way of eating are all supportive and sustaining in maintaining centeredness and balance. Balancing the physical, mental, emotional,and spiritual aspects of life is necessary in interesting times. These are the times of earthquakes, floods, fires, wars, sudden explosions and least we forget we are in a time when people are very divided around what we value and how we want to live together. It is also a time when the portals are open and tremendous energy is available, true evolution is possible and I believe major lessons to be learned. This plane of existence, this earth, this universe is school. Kindergarten for some, high school for others and University and post-grad work for many and we can skip grades at this time. We can Wake Up and help others to open their eyes.
Posted by joaniemercer on January 18, 2017
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Breathing
What happens to one’s breath when one practices the Alexander Technique? When the head moves ever so slightly forward and up off the top of the spine and the whole body follows lengthening and widening, the breath is able to come into the back all the way to the lower ribs and below. This reduces excess tension and allows a sense of calm and energy. Becoming more aware of the relationship of whole head to whole body and the activity of breathing is a great way to begins any activity from singing to dancing to brushing your teeth to stirring a pot. It will truly make your meditation practice more easeful and allow a deepening of your experience of being the witness.
Posted by joaniemercer on January 5, 2015
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Vigilance
This morning as I was filling the tea kettle I noticed that I was hunching my shoulders which was rather shocking to me. I am reminded of a Sanskrit word, avadhana, which means vigilance. This takes vigilance to a whole new level, the level of sacred practice. I must say that after 37 years of practicing the observation, thinking and direction of the Alexander Technique, I am more aware than ever that for me this is a sacred practice. I honor, respect and revere the teachings and my teachers of the Alexander Technique.
To approach my practice with this understanding creates a deeper experience of the Use of the Self. I become present in the consciousness within that is untainted,clear and light as well as grounded that is the core of my being.
For me it always comes back to mindfulness and awareness and how often throughout the day I can return to presence. It is easy for the mind to drift and for thoughts to run rampant. Since my thoughts create my world the more often they are the awareness, inhibition, and direction of the Alexander Technique the more the more often I have peace and clarity.
Posted by joaniemercer on April 26, 2014
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What Are You Doing With Yourself?
My teacher Marj Barstow would ask this question, ” WHAT ARE YOU DOING WITH YOURSELF?” and immediately I would go into a watchful awareness. What am I doing with my head in relationship to my neck? my whole body? What is my breathing like? Free and easy or tense? How are my arms ? Are they moving freely? my legs? I find it helpful to put up sticky tabs with this one question, on the dashboard of my car, on the fridge on the bathroom mirror, at the kitchen sink.
When I am swimming it is often easy to go into this mindfulness. I am horizontal and the water supports me so I can easily watch and let my neck be free. I can locate the crown of my head and ease my whole head away from my whole body. I watch my arms for any excess tension. My kick originates from my core and my breathing is easy and full.
Cooking is another great opportunity to witness “what I am doing with myself”. How am I standing at the stove? What is the quality of my lunge when I bring things out of the oven? When I reach for utensils or reach for a pot, what am I doing with myself? It is also an opportune time to inhibit, pause, and consciously direct my head/neck/body relationship. These daily activities can trigger back pain for so many of us if they are performed unconsciously.
We can also learn so much from watching others. Recently I was at a demonstration at the Texas Capital and what an opportunity to observe people ! What do we do with ourselves when we feel passionately about something? What do we do when the adrenaline is flowing and we are in a state of excitement? What do others do? There were many young children there and they, too, provided and excellent opportunity to watch. So many of the kids were free and easy in their movements and setting excellent examples of good use.
So let’s make today a day to be mindful and conscious of what we are doing with ourselves!
Posted by joaniemercer on July 8, 2013
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It is what you do before you do what you are doing.
Alexander Technique is also about being aware of what you do before you do what ever it is you are doing. For instance, you are sitting at your computer and you are putting your fingers on the key board. What did you do before you moved your hands? Did you tighten your neck slightly ? Did you free your neck? Are you using your body as a whole or thinking of it as parts? What is happening with your breathing? Another way of saying this is: what are your habits that precede your activities? Taking just a moment, you can watch your whole head in relationship with your whole body. You can allow some ease to move throughout your whole being. Now watch yourself place your hands on the keyboard. A whole different experience that incorporates awareness, mindfulness and ease.
Posted by joaniemercer on February 7, 2013
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Can you help me out?
There is a great story about a man who falls into a hole. A doctor walks past him and he shouts up, “hey doc, can you help me out?” the doctor tosses down a prescription. Then a priest walks past and he shouts up,”hey pastor, can you help me out?” the priest calls out a blessing. Then his friend Joe walks past and he yells, “hey Joe, I am down here, can you help me out?” Joe immediately jumps down into the hole. The man in the hole says, “that was crazy Joe, now we are both stuck down here.” Joe says, “yea, but I’ve been down here before and I can show you the way out.”
This is story is so relevant today. So many of us have been through so much and we get the messiness of life. We need not be afraid of the messiness. We can be willing and open to show our vulnerability, show our feelings, ask for help. My experience is if you ask someone will always come along who has been down that road before and will lend a hand. It is when we have shame and embarrassment about the mess that we can not grow and get free. It is only in making mistakes that we learn to find out ‘what works’ for us.
Posted by joaniemercer on February 1, 2013
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To Be Present is the Key, I See.
In the last blog, I encouraged everyone to “watch yourself.” Today as I was giving a lesson, my student who is a singer and a writer blurted out “to be present is the key, I see.” This got me to thinking as we say here in Texas. What happens when we practice ? When we begin to watch ourselves, when we inhibit and consciously direct ourselves? We become still, present. We can act rather than react. We become calm and feel uplifted. This same student shared with me that she feels better as soon as the lesson begins.
One of my favorite teachers is Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj. From his book I Am That is the wonderful explanation of the difference between ‘aware’ and ‘conscious.’
Awareness is primordial; it is the original state, beginningless, endless, uncaused, unsupported, without parts, without change. Consciousness is on contact, a reflection against a surface, a state of duality. There can be no consciousness with out awareness, but there can be awareness without consciousness, as in deep sleep. Awareness is absolute, consciousness is relative to its content; consciousness is always of something. Consciousness is partial and changeful, awareness is total, changeless, calm and silent. And it is the common matrix of every experience.
When we practice the Alexander Technique, when we become conscious of our habitual patterns, learn to pause, and use ourselves consciously; we become ‘aware’, if only briefly. This experience connects us to our true nature, awareness.
Posted by joaniemercer on July 6, 2012
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